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I wasn't always completely happy with being the only virgin among my peers though. I sometimes felt like a freak, but mostly I was proud of it and didn't hesitate to bring it up in conversation.

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Oddly, despite not wanting to lose my virginity to someone who might not speak to me when I saw him in the pub the next week, I didn't want a boyfriend. At least I didn't think I did. I could see myself having a regular sexual partner, but I'd been single for so long I literally couldn't imagine having a boyfriend.

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