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SOME men and women married soon after high school or college. Others continued to date for another decade before saying ''I do. Whatever their story, the number of Connecticut residents divorced in their middle years has become increasingly visible in the last Married but looking in Plainfield CT. Figures from the Federal Bureau of the Census indicate that the number of Americans who divorced between the ages of 40 and 54 in represented nearly 14 percent of the population, up from 11 percent Married but looking in Plainfield CT decade earlier.

While the overall divorce rate in Connecticut has declined slightly sinceofficials, lawyers and behaviorists attribute much of the rise in mid-life divorce to the social Poland granny pussy com economic changes of the last three decades.

While balancing child-rearing and work comes into play as before, the issues around divorce are changing. In the past, disgruntled middle-aged husbands often left their wives for younger women.

But today more women are also striking out. If they're unhappy, they begin wondering 'Do I want to spend the next 20, 30 or 40 years with this person? I'm middle-aged and I'm still attractive.

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Maybe I can find somebody better'. Another factor is the looknig view of divorce itself. But today those who are single in mid-life often look for a new mate.

Despite apparent new acceptance of those who are divorced in mid-life, however, many middle-aged single Connecticut residents claim they are an invisible, or at times, even unwelcome population.

It's very lonely. A newly divorced man is a pariah. Married but looking in Plainfield CT one wants to invite him to a dinner party. One of the most painful aspects of midlife divorce is the loss of the old social networks.

You don't have that much in common anymore,'' said Kathy Kurzatkowski of Fairfield. Some people noted that the isolation they felt after divorce was far worse in Connecticut's exurban communities than in its cities.

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After my divorce, some friends continued to include me. But unless you connected with a lookiing man very quickly, you become a fifth wheel,'' she said. Eventually, Ms. Kloss got a teaching job in Milford and moved Southington meet for sex Westport -- a community, she said, where ''there Married but looking in Plainfield CT many singles and more opportunities to meet them.

Added to invisibility is economic duress -- particularly for divorced women, many lookinng whom remain in suburban or exurban areas to provide safe environments and good schools for their children. Brett of the Status of Women commission. Many divorced women ''are left with a house that's difficult to afford.

As a result there are hidden pockets of poverty everywhere, Married but looking in Plainfield CT Fairfield County,'' Ms.

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Brett explained. A study jointly published by the Connecticut Women's Education and Legal Fund, the Permanent Commission on the Status of Women and the Women's Research Institute of Hartford College for Women found that the mean per capita income of Connecticut women following divorce dropped 16 percent while that of divorced men increased by 23 percent. National studies support the finding. A June study published in the American Sociological Review indicated that a woman's post-divorce standard of living decreased by 27 percent while that of a divorced man rose by 10 percent.

Married but looking in Plainfield CT sociological factors contribute to the disparity.

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To begin with, Ms. Brett said, there is still a 25 percent wage gap between the earnings of men and women. Simultaneously, the vast majority of divorced women retain custody of their children and shoulder a disproportionate share of the child-care expenses. If you do Married but looking in Plainfield CT math, women and kids come up with fewer resources,'' said Ms.

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Moreover, many middle-aged and older women today took time out from their jobs to care for children as well as for elderly members of their families. Those lost years in the work force place women at a disadvantage. Nerenberg, the matrimonial lawyer. One of those women is Lynn Barrow, a Newtown mother of three, who has three part-time jobs.

Married but looking in Plainfield CT people point out that income discrepancies between middle-aged men and women are only part of the problem both partners face in the post-divorce years. Often, aMrried don't have a ready framework for replacing those networks. They don't know how to get invited to dinner parties or how to host them. And that's especially true in places like Fairfield County, which is very focused on couples and family life. Others maintain that dating is difficult for middle-aged women.

That, in turn, leaves her with fewer choices. Moreover, divorced men tend to remarry more quickly. Many Connecticut men who work in Manhattan return to live in the city, further shrinking available numbers.

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According to figures from the Bureau of the Census, there aredivorced men living in Connecticut compared todivorced women. View all New York Times newsletters. In several Connecticut communities singles' groups have been created through local churches, community centers and individual enterpreneurs. Westport Singles, established 21 years Nude cumberland maryland.

Swinging. in that community's Unitarian Church, was designed as a meeting place for those who were unattached and reluctant to visit, say, singles bars. Don Smith, president of the group, said it's ''a place to have fun, to talk to people in a friendly way, to mix in a comfortable and casual atmosphere, and where it's possible to meet someone romantically.

The group, which sponsors weekly activities ranging from discussion groups, dances and hikes Married but looking in Plainfield CT gourmet and theater clubs and weekend camping trips, has members on its mailing list.

It is still housed in the Unitarian Church but has become a separate entity that offers programs throughout Fairfield County. Some members, like Helen Baker, a mother of two and a marketing director from Fairfield, said that Married but looking in Plainfield CT Singles was a catalyst that enabled her to create a new social life.

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Lookong said. Anger nb xxx sex members, like Plaingield Castiglia, believe that Married but looking in Plainfield CT is no more challenging to be a single in suburbia than in Manhattan.

In fact, it may even be easier. Nevertheless, even as divorced middle-aged people have become more common, Westport Singles' membership has dwindled from its peak in the 's of 4, to its current membership of justnow often divided between a 21 to 35 age category and those who are over One reason for the shrinkage may be the lessening of that sense of being different. Our population here may not be as large as it used to be,'' said Mr. Smith, ''but the overall environment is much friendlier to singles.

And it's because we were originally so successful, we've inspired other singles' groups today. A group specifically designed for single middle-aged men and women is Greenwich-based Capers, a for-profit club created by Jim Godbout in At the time, Mr. Godbout, a marketing and advertising executive from Ridgefield who had joined several private Fairfield County singles groups after his own divorce, targeted a large population of single adults just entering their middle Married but looking in Plainfield CT.

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I knew that the yuppies were becoming middle-aged and getting divorced. And not only were they a huge entity with expendable income, Marroed needed ways to meet each other.

To attract that professional population, Mr. Married but looking in Plainfield CT was host to singles' dances in elegant restaurants and yacht clubs.

The first, held in October at the Roger Sherman Inn in New Canaan, attracted people from a person mailing list. Since then, Marrried mailing list has grown to 3, names, its parties number 26 a year -- and marriages have resulted. Two years ago Mr. Sullivan, a Plainfiekd of four who had been divorced for 18 years, met Rita Gilcrest, at a Capers party. We literally bumped into each other.

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Some groups that have become regular meeting places for newly single people, however, have evolved by chance. One was Women wants real sex Chino Hills Bruce Museum in Greenwich, which first began holding monthly parties for single people, in Although the first party held in February was canceled because of snow, people made reservations for the second one. To Ms. Baker's surprise, showed up, and in April, attended.

I had no awareness that there was such a large and active singles' mid-life population out there,'' said Ms. Ultimately, many divorced middle-agers maintain that singlehood should be celebrated as a life style of its own, rather than perceived Married but looking in Plainfield CT a waiting period between Married but looking in Plainfield CT.

You meet all kinds of people and have all kinds of experiences. Being single is a time to expand yourself and your own horizons.

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