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Examining announcements of family-friendly policies in The Wall Street JournalArthur found that the announcements alone significantly improved share prices. Ina study on flexibility in the workplace by Ellen Galinsky, Kelly Sakai, and Tyler Wigton of the Families and Work Institute showed that increased flexibility correlates positively with job engagement, job satisfaction, employee retention, and employee health.

This is only a small sampling from a large and growing literature trying to pin down the relationship between family-friendly policies and economic performance. Other scholars have concluded that good family policies attract Scottsdale girl sex talent, which in turn raises productivity, but that the policies themselves have no impact on thatt. Still others argue that results attributed to these policies are actually a function of good management overall.

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